寄人籬下唔喺一個問題，但喺如果嗰個人妒忌心重，蛇蠍心腸，貪婪，仲要有控制狂，咁我就大鑊喇。我寄神籬下咗卅幾年，佢完全冇壓制我，喺佢度仲得到自由嘅幸福。如果要幫人，將自己嘅一套嚮人哋唔願意嘅情況下監硬加諸於"受助人"身上，咁其實就好似強姦犯：「我而家攪妳都喺為妳好，橫掂妳都有需要㗎啦，我知妳享受嘅！」要幫人就切合人哋需要嚟幫，監硬俾啲人哋唔要嘅嘢人，人哋想要嗰啲你又唔俾，你當人哋喺堆填區牙？
Living under the roof of somebody else is not a problem, but if that somebody is a jealous, poison-hearted, greedy, controlling person, then I am doomed. I have been living under the roof of my Heavenly Father for over 30 years, He has never oppressed me, I have been so free and blessed because of Him. If you want to help others, but force your ways onto the "beneficiaries" against their wills, you are basically just like a rapist i.e. 'I am having sex with you for your own benefits. You have the needs anyway, I know that you are enjoying it!' If you truly want to help out someone your helps have to fit their needs and wants. When you force someone to have something that they do not really want, and you do not even give the things that they truly need or want, are they human beings or landfills to you?
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